As my grandmother would say

As my grandmother would say,
"Clairey, there are givers and takers"
and a quick way to tell the difference is 👇
to listen to how people speak about others.

Do they lift others up?
Thank those who help them?
Speak kindly about their kids, spouses, friends?

... or do they take all the praise but refrain from paying it forward?

The former carries a lot of water with me.

One of my favorite ways to find people who generously lift others up is to look at their reviews.

>> And not just the reviews they receive
But the reviews they GIVE <<

You can see this, too -- just scroll to the bottom of someone's profile and you can view the reviews Given and Received by that person.

For me, both are illuminating -- though one is slightly more than the other (I'm betting you know which).

Come to think of it -- it's high time I thanked a few people for their help lately. People like: Vicky Russell Matt Zaun Shyana Parr…

What's something you notice about others that builds trust with you?